Children are naturally curious and may sometimes find themselves in situations they do not fully understand. Some adults or older people may take advantage of this innocence by asking children to keep certain conversations, gifts, meetings, invitations or promises secret from their parents.
Children should be taught that they do not have to keep secrets that make them uncomfortable, frightened or confused. If anyone tells them, “Don’t tell your parents,” it should serve as a warning sign.
Any unusual communication, invitation, instruction, gift or promise that a child is asked to keep secret should be reported to a parent, guardian or another trusted adult before the child takes any further action.
Parents should also create an environment where children feel safe enough to speak. When children believe they will be listened to rather than immediately punished or dismissed, they are more likely to report situations that may put them at risk.
A security-conscious parent or guardian should never consider a child too young to learn basic safety principles. Children can be taught, in simple language, how to recognise unsafe situations, protect personal information, avoid dangerous interactions and seek help when something does not feel right.
It is equally important to teach children that they will not be blamed for speaking up, even if they have already accepted a gift, responded to a message or agreed to keep something secret. This reassurance can help them seek assistance without fear or shame.
Teaching children to speak up is not about creating fear. It is about giving them the confidence and knowledge to protect themselves and seek help when necessary.
Quote:
“Children should report to their parents anything they are told to keep secret.”
Just be good. Reflect. Stay alert.
Author
Moruf Yusuf (Ojogbon)
ANIPR, MISN, FCAI, FIIM, MSPSP
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Friday, 9th October, 2026
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